H E A R T A U T U M N

So I actually shot the photos for this post a few weeks ago, back in October half-term, but have been in a serious uninspired and unmotivated slump since. I don't know why, I don't know what changed, but I wrote about it (the post will be up later this week), read some inspiring blog posts (including this kick-ass one from Em on the future of blogging) and ta-da! Here we are! Sometimes you just need to be for a while, get things off your chest, listen to others and things will sort themselves out. I still, however, have no motivation to bother with Instagram because it's just not my favourite place to be at the moment.

In my recent post about vintage shopping, I touched on charity shops and how they're often the best place to find a bargain. I also touched on the fact that I don't do enough hunting for said bargains. So it inspired me to get out and do so! And bargains a plenty I did find. I only went in 2 different shops (Mind and British Heart Foundation) because they are *literally* opposite each other in Halifax and I was just walking past. And now I'm wondering why I haven't been doing it so much more?! I was in both shops for less than half an hour combined, found 3 bloody lovely pieces and spent a mere fraction of what I would for anything similar anywhere on the high street; I mean, what's not to love?
So with the 3 pieces that I picked up, I thought I'd put together 3 different outfits for a little 'charity shop lookbook' kind of post. Charity shops *can* be full of rubbish, lots of clothes that you'd never consider, because they simply don't have set styles to appeal to set audiences like the high street. But a little rummage can unearth something you never knew was missing from your wardrobe! As I've said before, I know that shopping at charity shops isn't accessible for everyone; they're not great in size ranges because they simply rely on donations, but it could always be worth a look. 
Location : Kirkstall Abbey


As soon as I walked into BHF I saw this burgundy velvet style blouse and was instantly drawn to it. The combination of the colour, fabric and the buttons just makes it the perfect 'nice top' to go with jeans. Which, as you can see, is the idea I went for. But it's also got a hint of Christmas to it and you could easily style it up more with some gold jewellery and a pair of heels. Because of the material, it is a little clingy, but I actually don't mind that? Which sounds weird as I normally want everything oversized and loose, but with the style it just seems to work! I'm also very pleased I got to dig these boots out from the dark depths at the back of my wardrobe because they're just the perfect colour match, no?
Price: £3.99



Wearing: Blouse, BHF - Jeans, Topshop (similar) - Boots, ASOS (similar) - Bag, Dorothy Perkins (similar)



Literally 30 seconds after picking up the burgundy blouse, I spied this leopard print one on the next rail. It's one size bigger than my usual, but I as I just mentioned, oversized is my go-to. I think it especially works with sheer shirts that you can put over a little bralet and not have to worry about anything being on show. I'm a big animal print lover (aren't we all, really?!) and had a leopard print shirt from Beyond Retro that I picked up last year, but I wore it so much that the shoulder ripped and it just wasn't repairable! So finding this was perfect timing. And sometimes you've just got to let the shirt do the talking which is why I went for all black this time including my trusty baker boy hat, because hello, it's that time of year again!
Price: £4.49 (originally M&S)

Wearing: Blouse, M&S via BHF - Skirt, Missguided (similar) - Boots, Topshop (similar) - Hat, ASOS (similar) - Bag, Coach


My favourite find of the day is this shirt dress that I picked up from Mind. I was just flicking through the racks, not really seeing anything of interest when I spotted this. It was the fact that it still had the original Zara tag on that caught my eye and then when I pulled it out and saw the different hems, it was like love at first sight! I foolishly thought the front was still long enough to protect my modesty but alas, it certainly isn't! But a little pair of shorts solve it all! I had the idea for this whole outfit almost instantly and with the dark tones and the fedora, I just knew that this location would work perfectly. Witchy vibes!
Price: £8.75 (originally Zara, full price: £25.99)



Wearing: Dress, Zara via Mind - Hat, Primark - Boots, ASOS (similar) - Bag, Coach



So I hope you're thoroughly inspired to check out your local charity shops now guys!

Do you know what I'm a big fan of? Scouring Etsy and finding hidden gems. Whether it's one-of-a-kind jewellery or unique pieces of clothing, I like having things that are a little different. Having things that you're not gonna see on everyone and their mum when you scroll through Instagram. And that's why I enjoy spending so much time finding boutique stores. Because not only that, you're supporting small businesses! Start-ups or 10 years old, small businesses are where we should be putting so much more of our money! Support those who aren't guaranteed substantial bonuses every Christmas! Support those wanting to make a dream a reality! Support creatives! 
So when I got an email a couple of weeks ago asking if I'd like some pieces from new jewellery brand Worry Knots sending over, I leapt at the chance! This isn't sponsored, I was gifted the pieces in return for an Instagram post only, I just thought it would make the perfect opportunity to talk about why we should shop small this Christmas, and all year round.

Worry Knots is run by Victoria and offers handmade jewellery via an Etsy Shop. She's very new to it, but the pieces are fabulous quality. She very kindly sent me 3 pairs of statement earrings, all autumnal themed because she knows its my favourite time of the year, and I really love them! Statement earrings are a piece of jewellery that I'm fully on board with; they can transform an otherwise boring outfit, add a pop of colour or completely make an outfit. And so easily! So here's the 3 pairs and 5 reasons why I love buying from small businesses.


















Supporting Dreams
Not only are you supporting someones dream when you buy from them, but you're helping support them/their family. You're not funding bonuses for an overpaid board of directors, you're not funding dividends for the big bosses who are trying every way possible to avoid paying tax. Your seemingly small purchase can make a real difference to someones day/week/month/life. 
Worry Knots was started when Victoria was struggling with her mental health. It's given her a focus and a creative outlet, why would you not want to support that? For this reason, 10% of the profits go to Mind so here's an extra added reason to treat yourself to some bold and bright earrings.



Attention To Detail
Every time I've ordered from a smaller store previously, the attention to detail has been wonderful. Whether it's the little sweets added to your parcel, the branding and packing that's so carefully thought out or the little care notes added to your items. I once purchased a wall print from one store (I forget the name, sorry!) and they added a surprise second print with a little note saying it was a promotional offer. How sweet!
When my earrings from Worry Knots arrived, they were in a slim cardboard box and the branding was just all so perfect. The tagline is 'Wear your uniqueness without a worry' something that I am fully supportive of, and the packing tape, stickers, tissue paper, everything had the 'Worry Knots' logo and colour scheme which just gave it the extra touch.



Customer Service
When you're dealing with small businesses they tend to care much more about their image. They want to grow, they don't want to hinder that, so they do everything they can to help you. I once ordered some vintage clothing from a boutique store on ASOS Marketplace and, because they were overseas, they emailed me beforehand to confirm the sizing to try minimise my need to return things. I've had another store email me personal updates about my delivery, apologising that my order was late dispatching. There's a little boutique store near my village that me and my mum love visiting and the woman that runs it always so friendly, can't do enough to help you and it really makes a difference. Good customer service goes a long way!



Better quality
Largely, independent businesses offer handmade items. Handmade items that are far better quality than something produced in a factory chain that you've got for half the price on ASOS. You'll get pieces that will last longer, pieces that will serve their purpose time and time again, pieces made with love.



Who doesn't like having unique pieces?
I've said this before and I'll say it again, I love having ~different~ things in my wardrobe/home that not everyone else will have. How many people will have a pair of monster earrings like these, compared to how many have that gaudy silver Topshop pair?

I've had this post sat in my drafts for a while now waiting for me to just finish and proof read but, following on from Stacey Dooley's documentary on Fashions Dirty Secrets and all the talk about fast fashion at the moment, it seems like the perfect time to offer up some advice on other ways to shop.

The easiest (I think) way of shopping most ethically, is to shop second-hand and vintage clothing. Whether this is going to your local charity shops, scouting out vintage stores (either online or in your favourite town) or simply buying on the likes of depop; you're purchasing clothing that has already been loved once and is not being newly produced, therefore not contributing to more environmental harm! You're preventing (some) unnecessary build-up of clothing on landfill sites and stopping the waste of good clothing, so whats not good about that? Plus, you can find true hidden gems and who doesn't love having unique pieces in their wardrobe that isn't gonna be flooding your instagram feed on every single blogger next week? (I don't know about you, but I'm practically bored to tears of literally everything that Topshop have to offer because I've seen it EVERYWHERE.)

Now I know that vintage shopping (and sustainability in general, tbh) is somewhat of a luxury to be able to do. Your high street charity shop is going to have a plus size department, it won't have tall or petite ranges and finding things to fit won't be easy. I'm aware of that. But if you can then you should try. If nothing else, the rummage in a vintage store could just give you more inspiration for your existing wardrobe. And remember, things can always be cut up and taken to a tailors (or you might be handy with a sewing machine yourself, who knows!). You could make something from that maxi skirt that won't fit you even though you love the fabric; I once made a handbag from a pair of denim cut-offs! Think outside of the box.

I'll be honest, I'm not a pro at vintage shopping, but I'm trying to get better. So it only seemed right to share my ~journey~ and what I'm learning. My favourite ever find (that I will never stop mentioning, ever) is the 90s Burberry jacket in the above photo, which I found on the Oxfam website a few years back for a mere £50. Yep! So here's a few things to note:

1. Never write off charity shops
If you're looking for the best bargains, definitely hit up your local high street and get into that British Heart Foundation/Oxfam/Mind whichever charity shops are there! Everything is priced reasonably low (in my experience) and you have the extra added bonus of contributing to charity. You might not find the best vintage designer numbers, but in terms of second-hand Topshop or a 90s silk leopard print shirt, you really can't go wrong. As I mentioned before, I've shopped Oxfam online too, but not all charities do online shops. So do some digging!

2. Don't search by size
When looking online, whether it's the likes of Rokit Vintage, Oxfam or just on Depop, never limit your search by looking for only 'size 10' (or whatever size you usually wear). This is for 2 reasons: firstly, when there's a mixture of clothing for so many different brands, the fit of sizing will vary greatly (hello, we all know a size 10 in H&M is actually a size 6) and some things you might want more oversized and some tighter fitting. Also secondly, everywhere labels clothing differently so some may be defined by only S/M/L, some in UK sizing and some in European sizing. So you could be excluding a whole range of items without knowing it!

3. Always look past what you see
This sounds like some kind of grandious life lesson, but I just mean try to see how the items will work with your own wardrobe. Much like when you're moving house and you go to viewings and try and picture the rooms with your own furniture instead of that gross beige sofa! This is especially important for depop where people seem to be unable to take a decent photo; those striped trousers might not look great lazily draped across the sellers bed, but try and picture them on and with that nice red top you've got. 

4. Know where to look
I've done a fair bit of browsing, so I thought I'd share the best places I've been finding some good little gems. In the way of vintage stores online: Beyond Retro, We Are Cow and Rokit are the best that I've found so far. They also have stores you can visit, so check out the locations! And if you're in Leeds, I can recommend Blue Rinse Vintage (which is next to the Corn Exchange), Ryan Vintage (on Duncan Street) and the Sue Ryder vintage & retro store in Headingley. But there are so many more that I've just not explored! The Oxfam online site is worth checking for hidden gems, and a few of the sellers I'm always lusting after on Depop include: Boo Tack (@bootack); As If (@asifvintage); The Mighty Junkyard (@inthejunkyard); and Jodie Rockett (@jodierockett) so go have a browse!

Also, don't forget there's ASOS Marketplace, which not only has boutiques but vintage sellers too; along with Etsy & eBay, but just avoid all of the cheap knockoffs coming from China!

If you've got any vintage recommendations, hit me up in the comments below!