The purpose of finding more sustainable brands isn't to simply switch out everything in your wardrobe, that would be very *unsustainable*. But more so to have these brands at the forefront of your mind for when you want to buy particular pieces, to stop you defaulting to fast fashion! So far, we have Lucy & Yak for bold, statement clothing; we have People Tree and Armedangels for more classic pieces in your wardrobe. There's of course charity shops and vintage stores GALORE for anything and everything. But there are certain things which I think you just can't buy vintage, and these are the basics in your wardrobe. The simple white tee, vests and underwear. So isn't it just wonderful that the perfect brand for these presented themselves to me earlier this month!

*These pieces were gifted as part of an Instagram collaboration. This blog post is purely my own choice; all words and opinions my own.*



Who Are Organic Basics?
So you might have heard of Organic Basics already, I've seen them pop up a few times on Instagram before, but if you haven't, they're a Danish company founded in 2015 with the tagline 'Basically Better Made'. They put sustainable thinking at the centre of everything; choosing only fabrics that care for the environment and working only with factories that care about their impact. They offer a range of underwear and loungewear designed to last; package everything in recycled and recyclable materials; and are completely transparent with their sustainable practices. You can find out all about the factories that make their products on their website, including how long they've been in business, employee working hours and the certifications which they have.



The materials which Organic Basics use are all carefully chosen. They vary from organic cotton and recycled wool to SilverTech and recycled nylon. All good for the environment in different ways. As you can see from the labels, this set is made from recycled nylon which has been proven to result in 90% less waterwaste and 80% less CO2! And considering how soft and comfortable it is, I'd say that's an all-round winner!

















I'm wearing pieces from one of the starter packs (which consists of a vest* and 2 thongs*) - I'd definitely recommend buying a pack as you make a saving on the individual item prices. There's a range of packs for both men and women consisting of underwear sets, sportswear and various multipacks. 
But both of these pieces are just super soft and comfortable, as well as being stretchy and fitting true to size. My only fault is that the straps are a little long on the vest, but that's just me! You can pick these up in either black, white or rose nude.


Where Can I Buy It?
So if you're after some (very) comfortable, sustainable basics in your wardrobe head on over to organicbasics.com to place your order! And you can use EMMOB1 for 10% off - don't say I never give you anything!

This is quite the dramatic title for what is a rather mundane post tbh, and if you're coming here expecting me to announce that I'm off to travel the world or something equally as exciting, then I am very sorry.  I'm very much a homebody; I hate being away from my home comforts and I don't like sleeping in a bed that isn't mine, so as much as I would love to be trecking across Australia and 'living my best life' to the fullest, I just can't see it happening.
I simply couldn't think of a title for this post! 
The contents are actually very mundane really, in that I've recently been getting into some good routines and am feeling much more happy and comfortable with myself than I ever have before. So I wanted to share what it is that I've changed!



Yoga
I've dipped in and out of yoga for about a year now, just doing short workouts from YouTube in the comfort of my own living room, but since last month I've gotten into a good routine practising 3 times a week. (Still at home, I haven't found a local class with times that suit!) I find it works best for me and my body to get up and do this on a weekday, at 6am before work; it's the perfect wake-up and sets me up for a good day. It helps me to de-stress and stay calm, set an intention for the day ahead and my body is just feeling much more free than before I started! If you're looking to start some yoga at home, I would definitely recommend Yoga With Adrienne and Cat Meffan! If you've got any other recommendations, leave them below!




Bullet Journal
I started a bullet journal and not to be dramatic, but it has quite literally changed my life. I'm a serial planner; I like to write everything down, known what is happening when and how long I have to do things, so I've always kept a diary. But bullet journals are so personal and allow you to be much more creative, I am honestly loving it! I keep a gratitude list each month, marking down at least one thing each day that I'm grateful for and it really makes you appreciate the small things in life. I have lots of little sections, such as monthly goals and a 'bookshelf' but my favourite thing is to just fill random pages with doodles and motivational quotes to get my creative juices flowing!




Making time for hobbies
I've really fallen out of love with social media recently; I love writing and creating content for my blog, but the whole social media side of it and the competition of Instagram is just not for me. So I've been making an effort to switch off and make more time for things that I do enjoy. So along with spending my time doing yoga and getting creative with my bullet journal, going to the gym and reading everyday, I've also rediscovered some old creative loves! Cross-stitch and painting. (Hobbycraft is my new favourite store right now!) And I feel far more productive having something to show for my time that isn't just a bunch of photos I've double-tapped from an hour of scrolling! I've also spent this morning (yesterday, when this goes up) tie-dying a t-shirt and doesn't it feel good to customise your clothes?!



















And to showcase me being so happy in myself, what better outfit than that with all 3 of my pieces from my favourite designer! Triple Stella McCartney yas! Unfortunately they're all old season because a girl can not afford new, and even the jeans are no longer available (they were Next). But this shirt is iconic with the 'No Leather' and 'No Fur' statements down the back which unfortunately we didn't capture very well.

I don't go to many blogger events, but when I do boy are they good ones! A couple of weeks ago I was invited to a cocktail masterclass with Portobello Road Gin at Manahatta in Leeds, a bar that I've never actually visited before (but would definitely recommend if you're in the city centre!), and it was so much fun that I wanted to share it all with you. I met new bloggers and reconnected with others; enjoyed good food and drank great cocktails; laughed a lot and even won a full-size bottle of gin!

Now I know what you're thinking, in my IBS post I did talk about how I no longer really drink alcohol; that is to say that I don't drink in great quantities, I don't get drunk and I don't drink often. But if there's one thing that I can't resist it's a good cocktail! Gone are the days of a pitcher of Woo-Woo in my local spoons drunk straight from the jug though (we've all been there, don't lie!), we're stepping things up, getting mature and sophisticated and all that sha-bang. Good quality cocktails are where it's at now, guys! And Portobello Road Gin are wanting to bring back some forgotten classics. 



Made fresh for each of us on arrival was Portobello Roads signature drink, French 75. A good choice if you're a fan of all things citrus/tangy/sour. I first had a French 75 2 years ago at a Christmas party and it was like a pure mix of gin and champagne. So I was very glad that when I tasted this one it had the measurements perfected! (My photos of this one turned out not so good but it's a pretty pastel lemon colour served in a champagne flute, if you were wondering!)

The first cocktail we made and my favourite of the night! A fresh and fruity choice, I would highly recommend this if you're a fan of all things sweet and sugary. Put cherry liquor and grenadine in anything and I'll drink it.



A simple cocktail with only 3 ingredients, the almond taste that the syrup gives this is divine! This ones a bit stronger (or maybe I just made it that way?) and when the guys from Portobello Road Gin tasted our attempts, I actually won (along with 2 others) for making the best one. So now I'm gonna have to invest in some orgeat syrup and force my spectacular Army & Navy cocktail making skills on my nearest and dearest. It's the rules, no?



The final cocktail of the night was definitely the strongest, but what do you expect when the absinthe comes out?! Complete the drink with a cherry and a piece of lemon and it's good to go. I think this was my least favourite of the night, but that's only personal preference. A good choice for those of you who like to really taste the alcohol in your cocktail!



I'm not a gin snob. I don't have a favourite brand of gin. Flavoured ones are good, pink ones are good. But if you're looking for a classic, Portobello Road is a top choice! 
Side note: if you're put off gin because G&T's are vile (this was me last year) try gin with lemonade and it will change your mind!

 

We all know that social media isn't a true representation of anybodys life; it's a highlights reel, etc. etc. But does that mean that what people are sharing isn't real life? Does it mean that they're not being their true selves online? Being a blogger and following lots of other bloggers, this is something that I think about A LOT. Sharing bits of your life online kinda comes with the territory and as much as I'm all for 'keeping it real', I do think some can take it too far to the point where it's no longer real anymore. I recently read The Authentic Lie by Pandora Sykes about 'seeking an authentic self, in a hyper-curated world', (which sadly was a PoundProject funded essay and is no longer available to buy) and it made me do a lot of thinking and a lot of reflecting.

On occasion, there's been people that I've followed online (bloggers or ~influencers of some kind) and I've seen how they suddenly change what they're sharing and how they're sharing it, resulting in a lot of growth. It can be hard to tell (sometimes) if that was a natural shift or a conscious 'this is how other people have grown their platforms' kind of shift. And when its the latter, I find the whole thing really rather gross. When did it become such a bad thing to be yourself and be unique? One thing that Pandora states in her essay which really resonated "Authenticity has become something to be bought and sold. Dispatches of the authentic self are posted into the empty vessels of social media so that they fill up, like a jar stuffed with Post-it notes about who we think, or hope, we are."
 
I like to think that me online is very much the same as me offline. I mean, my mums an avid reader/supporter of everything I post so if I wasn't, I'm sure she'd give me a few words! The only real difference I feel is that I come across far more confident online. Because typing behind a computer is the much easier option when battling anxiety.



So what does it mean to be your authentic self online?
To me, it's being as ~real and true to yourself as possible. Sharing the food that you enjoy eating, the clothes that you actually wear and the thoughts that you genuinely agree with. It's not sharing just for the sake of sharing; not following the crowds simply because you want to fit in; nor sharing faux relatable posts. 
In Pandoras essay, she regales on an instance when she saw a post on Instagram promoting people to 'love your stretch marks' while posting a photo of themselves showing zero stretch marks. And it's things like this, a flimsy attempt to anchor and co-opt authenticity in the digital age that ruins it for others. Remember when Missguided were accused of Photoshopping stretch marks ON to their models to seem more authentic in their images? And bloggers taking photos in an outfit once before the clothes are for sale on their Depop, to me, simply isn't them being their true self online. How do we know it's genuinely something you would wear if you didn't even leave the house in it or take the tags off?
People sharing selfies of them looking miserable to show they've had a bad day, because they like to keep things real is a funny one. I want to be supportive and be glad that they're doing so, but. If you have to proclaim your authenticity, is it truly there?



What authenticity online means to me
Being authentic online and being relatable are two completely different things. I hate seeing people complain that certain influencers aren't relatable, because the truth is not everyone is going to be relatable to you. We all live in different parts of the world, with different values and ethics, we earn different salaries and have different goals for how we want to spend that money. So stop slamming people for not living their lives the way in which you do/want to. 
Authenticity online is something really important to me. I don't want to support people who are faking their way to top. I've never condoned lying! 
To be authentic online doesn't mean to 'spill your psychological guts' and reveal a messy side to your life (metaphorical or physical!). You don't need to share everything. You can withhold the bad things in your life in the same way you can withhold the best things. Because to me, that is the best way to be your authentic self. Not curating a glossy social media persona. Keep it ~real by sharing the mediocre things in life. As Emma Gannon said "Choosing not to show the lumps and bumps of [y]our life, doesn't make you inauthentic".


How it's helped me curate my following lists
2019 has so far been the year of the 'clear out' on both my Twitter and Instagram following lists. I unfollowed those who weren't inspiring me or making me feel good. Those that I got fed up with seeing the same thing from. Those who don't talk about real life things. And it's made for more enjoyable (and informative!) scrolling time. Give it a go!


Wearing: Jeans, Levis via Next - Blouse, M&S via charity shop - Bag, TK Maxx (insert, The Hippy Rose on Etsy) - Sandals, Superga - Sunglasses, vintage

I never really talk much about health-related things on here, I don't want to dramatise things or come across attention-seeking for something that is quite a common illness. But with it being so common (at least one in 10 of us suffer from IBS), April being IBS awareness month and me being sat at home today having called in sick because of said IBS, I thought it seemed the right time to talk about my situation; my limitations, how I deal with it and hopefully bring some awareness to this invisible illness. (Whenever I see people calling it a chronic illness I always think they're being dramatic; there are far worse things to suffer from, y'know? But it can cause quite chronic symptoms!)

I remember being 13/14 and a friend being diagnosed with IBS and I'd never heard of it nor had any idea what it was; oh how I wish I could go back to that obliviousness! But if you don't know, IBS stands for Irritable Bowl Syndrome and is a condition affecting the digestive system. It can cause stomach cramps, bloating, diarrhoea and constipation just to name a few, and varies from person to person. There's not an exact cause and there's no cure; it's a lifelong condition which can be managed with medication, along with diet and lifestyle changes.

IBS is a very stressful condition; it can be hard to get a diagnosis given there's no test for it, theres no cure, and as it varies for every individual, it can be hard to manage. Not to mention the pain you have to deal with and the SHAME; oh and the fact that stress aggravates IBS! It's a bloody minefield!
I've gone through many flare-ups and had all of the symptoms possible, but my most common is the horrific cramps (sometimes to the point of curling up in a ball, crying on the bathroom floor) and fluctuating between constipation and diarrhoea which always keeps you on edge (soz to be TMI). And sometimes it's just really shit when you get up in a morning thinking you look quite good but as soon as you have some breakfast (even if it's something that you don't normally react to, like homemade granola or toasted rye bread) and your stomach bloats ridiculously so, making you look at least 6 months pregnant. And then you have to reevaluate your outfit choice because skinny jeans just won't fasten, let alone be comfortable all day.

Those with IBS express stress through issues in their gut in the same way people get neck ache or migraines.

There are numerous changes that I've had to make to my lifestyle since being diagnosed, including cutting out both alcohol and dairy. I have to be careful when ordering takeaways given that greasy, carb-loaded meals are my worst enemy and I can't eat apples or pears without getting cramps. Nor can I have onions, which ruins a lot of cooking! But focusing on the positives, I've got much more experimental in the kitchen. It might be making my transition to veganism extraordinarily hard, but I've discovered so many new foods and my diet is much more fresh and healthy than it ever has been.



I've also kind of been pushed into a strict routine. I've always been someone who likes planning and routines, but now it's too important not to. I need to eat 3 meals a day, not intermittent snacking; I can't exercise after food and I've worked out that regular stretching is essential for helping with cramps. So I get up and do 20 minutes of yoga in a morning and not only does it ease pain but it also helps with my headspace; allowing me to destress and lose some anxieties.


Wearing:


Pinafore, ASOS


Top, Stradivarius


Jacket, All Saints


Boots, River Island (old)











Other things that help me, in case you suffer too and are looking for tips:

• A regular exercise routine. Along with the yoga, I try and go to the gym 3 times a week for both cardio and weights. Sometimes I can't do too much without near collapsing, but the regular movement helps with everything.
• Keeping a food diary. I'm not too good with this anymore, now that I've worked out most of my triggers, but it still helps to keep track and when symptoms are flaring up.
• Probiotics! I take a probiotic every morning after my breakfast and definitely think it's helped with keeping things healthy down in the gut!
• Hot water bottles are an absolute god send. I have one that lives on my bed, one in my drawer at work and a spare one in a drawer somewhere. 
• Journalling. It might sound odd, but bear with me! I keep a bullet journal now, writing down my intentions for the day and what I've been grateful for the previous day. It's helped me to keep more focused and positive about things, alleviating some stress and worries which in turn helps minimise cramps.
• Outfits like this! With no waistbands and nothing tight on the tummy.